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I am not sure if I am getting the brush off or if he is waiting for me to text!

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Question - (17 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, *rincess166 writes:

Hi

My boyfriend is in a band, and last week had two shows in our town and then left out of state for a week. He always takes me along to the shows they play but this time I had to ask to come along, he acted weird and was drunk (I had to pay to get in which I usually don't) left me waiting outside while their band was playing. The next day was their final show in our town and he apologized that morning and asked me to come with him to their final show. I got dressed up and waited for him, then I get a msg from him saying his mum was in town and that he was going to chill with her, and that I should hang with him when he gets back. (His mum lives hours away but this seemed weird) I didn't reply back to that msg since I was upset and went on with my day. The next day I get a msg from him saying he wishes I could fly over and visit him and that he missed me.

I was happy to get the msg but didn't reply back for a few hours and said I missed him too and that he has fun on tour..

Its been a week and I haven't heard from him. I feel like he is trying to get rid of me? Does he think I'm annoyed with him and isn't talking to me or is he waiting for me to text him? Should I wait for him to come back from tour in a week and see if he talks to me?

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (17 December 2009):

shania agony auntSounds like he's not too bothered because if he was really missing you he would be texting you as much as he could...no matter what it took, yes i know he's busy and plays in a band, but he doesn't do that 24/7...I wouldn't bother with him...he gives you nothing so why wait for him? I bet you he's going out enjoying his life...dont fret over him...go out and meet someone else who's willing to give you the attention you deserve.

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A female reader, princess166 Australia +, writes (17 December 2009):

princess166 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

sorry i meant to say guy im dating not boyfriend..

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