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*ylassie10
writes:so recently I have hung out with my ex boyfriend. In the past (about 7 months ago) we only dated for a few months but i felt like i never got closure because it ended before it started. We were both stubborn and broke up for a stupid reason. The problem i had with him was that he was a bit selfish and just did not think about my feelings sometimes but thats genuniley how he is. He has a good heart he just doesnt realize things until i point it out to him. Well recently i went to a club with him and we ended up dancing and making out but theres a problem...he has a girlfriend. He isnt that happy with her obviously and i think hes with her because he doesnt want to hurt her again by breaking up with her and hes comfortable...he dated her in high school for a while and she was his rebound right after me. I dont hang out with him much cuz hes always busy but i saw him out the other night at the bar andi feel like he plays games with me. He'll stare at me talk to guys and text me while im talking to them but then when im right infront of him trying to talk to him he acts like he doesnt care. He texts once every week or so to ask if im going out to the bars and i feel like hes attracted to me but i dont think he would tell me. I would have to say how i feel first. Hes all i think about and its so hard because he has a gf and idk if i should just leave it alone or tell him how I feel. I was thinking of talking to him about it and if he doesnt have those feelings, im going to cut off contact with him because its hard knowing I cant be close with him. But i dont want to be vulnerable and get let down.
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reader, mylassie10 +, writes (18 December 2009):
mylassie10 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey guys...thanx for your feedback. I appreciate your honesty and you really made me think and both of you were right on point. I know from an outsiders point of view...the simple thing would be to say hes not right for me and move on but its hard being in this position and feeling lonely while hes moved on but im going to try.
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