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writes:I dated a guy for several months and he broke up with me cause he went to prison and then we dated again after he got out but he went back for 2 years and then we where friends for a while but he went back again.He wonts to go back out with me when he gets out should i consider it or should i tell him no and move on? if No why?
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (12 December 2009):
 For now i'll say no.
c'mon you can do better than that. Your still quite young. later in life you'll be kickin yourself really hard. dunno what he was in for but that depends alot on this:
if its something really stupid like not paying a few parking fines then thats really dumb. and a dumb thing to be in prison for. and i dont think youd wanna grow old with a dumbarse. If its violence or attacking somebody, then how far do you have to pep him up before he does somthing like that to you? if its drugs, self abuse or anything harder then id definatley say no. i dont see a very good future here and/or it will be tough for him to do some stuff later in life.
I wish you the best but I think you deserve better from somebody. You'll find a tougher bad ass in the army or special forces ;)
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (12 December 2009):
I know at your age you are still convinced its all about love... Nuh uh. Love is nice only for the beginning of a relationship but as years go by, other important things have to be considered... Does he have a respectable career? Can he provide for me and my children that we will have? He is a habitual criminal and I suspect you are attracted to the bad boy types. These types are good for one thing and one thing only ;-)
For a real future and a chance at happiness, you need someone stable.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (12 December 2009):
 Three times in prison and you are still wondering if you should take a punt on him being umm what exactly? He sure doesnt appear to be the sort that is going to stick around for lengthy periods of time - why on earth are you even asking? Do your really think somebody who has been to jail three times in the past few years is all that you deserve?
garrrrr, is this question even for real?
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (12 December 2009):
Are you joking. If "no" then why? Ummm maybe because he's an ex con! That should be enough of a reason. If you really think the best you can do is some scumbag that's in and out of prison, then go for it.
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