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*helad
writes:Me and this girl are supposed to be friends because she said she wanted to be friends. However I am pretty sure she has a crush on me and she already knows I like her. As every time me and her walk past each other her best friend looks at me and glances back at her with a smirk on her face, whenever I used to say hi or wave at her when I'm with friends she would just smile but when I'm alone she would say hi back.When we aren't talking to each other, which is very often due to her hardly talking to me but is fine talking to other guys, and we crossed each other in the corridor we would both look at each other. We also make eye contact sometimes and she frequently plays with her hair when she thinks I am looking at her or when we are talking. However I think she is really pissed off with me as we haven't spoken to each other in weeks. This is mostly due to this other girl repeatedly touching me laughing at what ever I say and sometimes hugging me, feeling very low on confidence and the fact that I feel she is falling for every guy she talks to.But she said hi to me about 4 weeks ago I said hi back but we didn't bother to talk each other.I feel she is pissed because when we passed each other a few days ago her and her best friend saw me coming her best friend does what she normally does looking at both of us but the girl in question looked really angry when I looked at her. Probably due me and other girl playing silly games with each other e.g. she touched me so I touched her back and constantly laughing and joking. I admit I did this to get back at the girl in question. As the girl in question and her male friend sit quiet close to each other as there are 3 spare seats and are always laughing with each other over the other side of the class room. Today she was stood at the front of the classroom and I was looking at her however she had her arms crossed but as soon as she sat down I glanced at her a few times she looked at me and then continually played with her hair as I could see this out of the corner of my eye. She also wished me happy birthday with the teacher in front of the class.I went up to her yesterday, she was smiling from ear to ear, she asked how my birthday was and I asked her to talk she suggested talking then and I said we should talk later. However when we went to talk my friend was there as well and she began talking to him and hardly spoke to me which really began to piss me off. But I am really surprised she hasn't told me to get lost as we have had so many on's and off's were we are talking to each other the next minute we are not talk to each other.
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reader, thelad +, writes (13 December 2009):
thelad is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe time I spoke to her alone is when I asked her to talk. But over 5 weeks ago I regularly spoke to her alone.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (12 December 2009):
 I dont know if she likes you, have you spoken to her without having your friends along yet?
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reader, thelad +, writes (12 December 2009):
thelad is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe were all went to get revision guides at the end of the lesson. But do you think she even likes me?
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reader, ????RB???? +, writes (12 December 2009):
get her alone and discuss how you feel about eachother then you both know where you stand with eachother and you can progress your relationship whether it be as a friend or as a couple
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (12 December 2009):
so if you and the girl had agreed to talk, what was your friend doing there?
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