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writes:Hi,I have recently met a guy and we have got off on a really good start the problem is i have lied about my age saying i am 19 when i am really 16. he really likes me too, but him being 10 years my senior i know he wont like me for the following reasons.1. i am far to young2.i have lied so he will presume i will do it again3. he simply wont trust me.He says he is falling for meand to be honest i have fell head over heels for himbut i cant tell the truth!!!!!!!!shall i carry on lying?because i want our relationship to lasti do really really like him i wished i hadn't lied i feel awful because he is such a wonderful man.please help me!!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): You should tell him, everything don't leave out anything. He might not want to talk to you ever again but he has the rights to know. He might be upset at first or maybe forever but he also might not. You might have to stay friends until you turn 18 and you might find out that your feelings disappear over time
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009):
Depending on the statutory rape laws, your little white lies may put him in jail. And leave him stuck living with a sex offdender rap for the rest of his life even after he gets out.
Just something to think about.
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reader, minnie_me  +, writes (8 April 2009):
i no exactly how you feel i have done this before and trust me he will find out sooned or later. its best you just tell him the truth and explain to him why you lied and how you feel about him. if you come clean he might still have trust in you and there still might be a chance for you two to have a relationship.
Good luck with everything!
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reader, concernedbf  +, writes (8 April 2009):
he will find out soon enough. you need to tell him sooner then later.
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