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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:okay …. i first met this boy over a year ago and since then due to working in the same company and gettin on really well, we started speaking txting each other on the phone for hours, going out for drinks and to gig’s. i think that we are only just friends due to us speaking about it and i am fine with it, however whenever he thinks were getting to close he backs off big time, won’t speak to me or anything until he has cooled off, and we get back on the path to becoming really good friends and i know whats going to happen. he comes in to the place i work regularly to see me….. however he has spoken to someone else in work and told them that he now has a girlfriend, which i am glad he has found but i don’t understand why he has not told me we have both spoken about exes in the past and i have never thought anything of it, also he goes out of his way to say that he was at a friends house even though i know it is his new girfriends, i don’t see why he wouldn’t tell me. as we are sstill the same txtin every day speaking on the phone every other day, i haven’t said anyhting about it due to him no sayin anything to me. what do you think i should do about this to be honest i feel like i am giving the emotional side to a relationship maybe and not realising, does he really like me but dosn’t know how to go about it because i have always said we are just friends due to him always saying the same is he being unfair to be doing this. or am i just being crazy????
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): It's hard to understand when you think you disclose everything to each other and yet he's keeping this personal info to himself. At the end of the day though you're both still just friends.
Unless you feel something towards him, it doesn't really matter whether he discloses this info to you. let him come around to telling you in his own time. it could be that this girlfriend is serious for him. i know guys who get all secretive when they're falling hard for a girl.
The only thing you can do is just carry on like always. He'll appreciate your maturity all the more for it.
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