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Should I ask her out or wait awhile?

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Question - (8 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2009)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've known her since grade 9 (grade 11 now) and we've been pretty close friends since then, I started liking her around June last year. She has had a couple bad relationships where the guy would date her for a couple weeks then ask her out again, and treat her badly, not like hitting her just like ignoring her and stuff. She has just out of a relationship and i really want to ask her out cuz i really like her and i wouldnt treat her badly or anything. But im not sure how to ask her and im not sure if she likes me, we hug each other a lot, i've lent her my sweater i couple times when she's aked for it.

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A female reader, lillymay Ireland +, writes (8 April 2009):

lillymay agony aunthi there

my advice would be to be a very good friend to her rite now.take her out to the movies and food and walks and give her an idea of what it would be like to date you without the pressure of being boyfriend and girlfriend.

then maybe further on down the line ask her what her feelings are 4 you.

its as simple as that im afraid.

and dont be a doormat to her as this will put her off you she obviously likes a boy with a bit of an edge to him.

good luck.let me no how it turns out.

lillymay.x

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