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30-35,
*rocnbaby
writes:I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is 16, soon to be 17. We've been together for 11 months only. We've done other sexual stuff and it seems after we do that we fall more in love. We've done basically everything except, actual sex lol. But we haven't done anything recently. We were both virgins and had not done anything before with anyone before we got together. We want to have sex but we want it to happen at the right time.. but I wana know will sex possibly make us closer or does it just not change anything.? Helpp
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): It will make you more attached to him, but it will not automatically do the same for him. It really is a chemical difference and males are wired differently than females. Sex will not improve the relationship itself. Don't sleep with any guy in attempt to get him, keep him, or hook him in harder. He'll be glad for the sex but it won't do anything further otherwise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): Sex won't automatically make you closer or your relationship better. Any shared experience can bring you more intimacy, but don't confuse sexual intimacy for emotional intimacy. Many young couples actually end up feeling driven apart by sex because it can make the relationship change very sharply. Be careful, be thoughtful, be communicative and if you do choose to engage in sex, make sure you're safe, don't rush it, and don't expect the mountains to move on your first (third, tenth) time out.
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