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He doesn't want to have sex

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Question - (8 April 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female South Africa age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I are both 26, we have successful careers on cruise ships. We have been in a relationship for about 3 years.

When we are separated for a few weeks +/- 4-8 weeks at a time, we we get back together we have amazing sex for about two weeks then it stops and goes to about once every 3-4 weeks, which then it becomes a very quick roll-on roll-off.

I asked him last year if he wanted to help me improve things in our bedroom. He tried for about a month and nothing has happened since then. That was about 4 months ago.

He doesn't like to give me oral but he wants to receive it. I love it! I have now gotten to the stage where I masturbate in the shower and moan quite loudly for him to hear it. What should I do? I don't understand why he is put off by sex?

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