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*anie2
writes:This year I went out of state to college and met a guy in the beginning of the school year and a few months into our relationship I found out I was pregnant. He said he was too young to be a dad so he bailed. During the time a guy in my apartment building , who also is in one of my classes asked me for some help with school work and we started hanging out. I told him I was pregnant one night when he showed up with pizza and found me in tears in my room. He has be very understanding, helpful and sweet. For the last couple of months we have been hanging out all the time first just as friends then we went on a few dates. He has even came to a doctors appointment and an ultrasound appointment with me. He seems completely fine with the fact that I am pregnant. We are done school next week and he wants me to go home with him and met his family. They know that we are friends and that I am pregnant but I am nervous about telling them that we are now dating. Will they like me? I'm scared that they won't be as understanding about the whole situation. How can I show them that I am not trying to trap their son? and how would you react if it was your son? Reply to this Question
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reader, cls1990  +, writes (29 April 2009):
 if his family is anything like him then you will be fine. just be yourself, when his family see how much he cares for you and how happy you are together i dont think your pregnancy will be an issue.
good luck & enjoy yourself
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): This guy sounds so caring and loving, and I think that you should go and meet his family with an open mind. People do realise that sometimes things happen in life which are mistakes, however it is how you deal with those mistakes. You dont know what has happened in their past so the only way to find out if you are acceptable is to be yourself.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (29 April 2009):
 if it was my son i would be proud. dont be scared. just relax. they might be concerned as it would be a lot to take on but just be calm..
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