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*iket389
writes:This Is a bad situation to begin with i know. About 2 months ago now i was reintroduced to my friends cousin who is/was Engaged, Red flag right there i know. Last time i met here was a few years back, I always had feelings for her, and i find out that she did as well. To get to the point, shes not with him anymore to my knowledge, though i find out through her mom that she talks to him still about their relationship. All she tells me is that her mother wants her with him and she wasn't happy with him. I don't mean to rant but i have nobody to talk to. I guess im just feeling insecure and worried. were not dating, i told her i wouldn't until she cleared everything up and wasn't with anyone for a while. But all she tells me is she wants to be with me and nobody else to an extreme degree, and i really care about her a lot. Im just worried that shes talking to Other guys or him. This is such a difficult situation for me i just don't know what to do. i feel she really does care for me more so than anyone before, but at the same time idk if its real... any advice would help ive talked to her and shes done nothing but try to reassure me. i just can't help but have the negative thoughts. maybe its just me.... Help!
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reader, Miket389 +, writes (29 April 2009):
Miket389 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have and unfortunately the only source is mother who has already proved to be a little Batty lol. she seems almost bipolar telling her daughter nasty things one day and being nice the next. I feel she wants her to be with the ex, There is a child involved as well which makes things even more difficult. im in over my head but i really care for this girl a lot. we have talked and she says she wants to be with me and only me but we both agreed that its best not to officially be together, though we see each other all the time. its hard... ide like to get my hands on her phone i know it sounds a little possesive but i feel like it would be my only First hand Answer...idk what to do any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): I think you are doing right to check out the situation first and making sure she isn't back with her ex. Give it some time and tell her that you need to be sure. In the meantime, could you check out with other people what the situation is?
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