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Help! Is this normal?

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Question - (29 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *renna36 writes:

Me and my bf have made love twice. he is totally amazing, but there is one problem. he can never get in more then 5-6 in. even with foreplay it still doesn't go in all the way. when 6in come around it starts to hurt really bad so he has to stop. is this normal?

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A female reader, Blondie_x United Kingdom +, writes (29 April 2009):

Oh dont worry babe! I am the same and I am 18! It is actually a nice thing in my opinion. I think tight vagina's are the nicest! So dont worry about this. Eventually u will take 2 it after having intercourse a few times. It will get easier and the pain will ease! x

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A female reader, Brenna36 United States +, writes (29 April 2009):

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Brenna36 agony auntAlso i was wondering if there are any positions that might helpe. or if this has happened to you what did you do that helped out.

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A female reader, RaeMay United States +, writes (29 April 2009):

RaeMay agony auntit could be that your cervix is low. i have this. my boyfriend cant get in all the way unless were doing missionary because my cervix is too low. but if i find the right posistion then im fine. a lot of girls have that. its mostly like a sharp pain. its because your cervix is low and when a girl gets sexually aroused her cervix moves so the peins can pass through but sometimes the cervix doesnt move all the way and the tip of the penis hits it making it hurt.

i had the same question and thats how i found this site.

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A female reader, the1st1 United States +, writes (29 April 2009):

Either he is too big, as the other woman said.. OR, your uterus wall could be close, some womans uterus wall isnt very far back. To find out if that is the problem, ask him to finger you, and if he feels something that is hard (make sure its not the bean [g-spot] that he is feeling). if it is your wall, there is nothing you can do, except keep trying and sooner or later your wall will move back.

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (29 April 2009):

niki20 agony auntto me it sounds like he may be to big. this can really be normal. lube him up reallly good also yourself dont be afraid to have him put some inside of you as well, its perfectly safe.

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