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I'm desparate and I can't take it anymore!!please help me its my first love!!

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Question - (29 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 April 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, *eriem1421 writes:

Hi! I'm 15 and I was hoping you help me because I got a problem.

I really love this boy let's call him 'wb' I saw him staring at me many times and even my friends did, he tried to talk 2 me because he knows 1 of my friends but every time he comes my way I walk away! I just get too intense when he's around me and I'm too shy!

one day,his friend was pushing him on me n wb was telling his friend 2 stop n he was laughing!!!

after that another 1 of his friends did the same thing n i bumped into wb but i walked away so fast n i didnt even give him the chance 2 say he's sorry!!i know bumping is a great chance 2 talk 2 the boy u love but i swear i couldnt turn my head i just left!!!

It's my frist love!!!!!! I'm really not used to these things! His friends smile to me when I pass next 2 them and once i was going home and his friend called his name so loud when after he smiled 2 me!!wb was there but he wasn't that far!!

I was wondering if you've got any advice so I can calm down when he comes to talk 2 my friend and not run away and leave my friend??!!! btw he's never had a real girlfriend and he's the shy type too!! I think he's afraid of rejection since I never said yes 2 any of the boys who asked me out before!!!yes,i never had a boyfriend!!!i really wanna get close 2 him cause summer is coming n i won't see him 4 a long while!!!!

his family always travel 2 usa n i don't know where mine is traveling to?!!if i become his friend i'll be able 2 chat with him n text him at least!!!

my friends say they can feel he loves and i could feel the attraction between us when he looked me in the eye once but i'm still telling my self:don't get ur hope up girl!!!!!!!

just tell me How can I show him my interest without my cheeks turning so red???how can i start a conversation with him?

I hope you reply! thx n bye!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2009):

hi :) its ok im 15 and ive never had a boyfriend either, although the one i like isnt my 'first love' anyways. i really do think he likes youuuu! its a bit obv isnt it!? just try and be yourself around him, when you see him hold eye contact for a bit and then look away and start talkin to your friends or carry on with what you were doing, that way he souldnt feel intimadated to come over and start a conversation with you himself. time is all you need really, time for you to calm down, time for him to make a move? so yeah just try your best and wait it out. good luck xxx

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A female reader, niki20 United States +, writes (29 April 2009):

niki20 agony auntjust find something you both have in common, movies, books, sports whatever. when your cheecks turn red, most guys think its cute.

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