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writes:I'm so confused. I met a guy on an online dating site. We exchanged numbers and have been texting... he lives about 2 hours drive from me and we haven't met up yet. Recently, I met another boy who I do like. However, the other day, the boy I met from the dating site has asked to meet with me as he has started to have feelings for me. I really don't know what to do because I do like him too, but have met someone else. I know I have to end it with one of these boys, but I don't want to lose them. I really don't know what to do as I dont want to make the wrong decision and regret it. Please help !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionto answer petinal's response, no only the one of them is from the dating site the other i met in town. thanks for your answers :)
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reader, doublejack  +, writes (22 January 2011):
I think it is too early to end it with either one. I don't think it makes someone a player if they are dating two people simultaneously, with the caveat that both are first or second date situations. It takes a few dates to really start to get to know someone. Until that point there's no real relationship, and therefore no need to be exclusive.
So, I suggest getting to know each of these boys a little better.
That said, the dating sight boy sounds like he may be a little clingy and needy, as he claims to be developing feelings yet you've never met. That's something to watch with him. Also, I personally can't handle any LDR's, and 2 hours between you qualifies as an LDR in my opinion. That would be a consideration for me.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (22 January 2011):
 Have you met the other boy 'in person'. or are they both on the dating site. if they are on the dating site, no harm in meeting both and deciding which one you want to make a go of it with. Otherwise if you have met one guy who you like in person, i should go with him. It's dangerous meeting up with people online who you don't really know. Always let someone know where you are at all times, or get the guy to come over in to your territory.
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