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Is he the guy or not?

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Question - (20 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2011)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I love this guy that i'm wondering about.i'm wondering if he is guy or not. we have been seeing each other for about 4 yrs. I meet him at a gas station it was close to christmas time. He bought me underwear, bras,short skirts, I thought of it very werriod to me esechial when we just become to know each other and he bought gifts that a boyfriend would by for his girlfriend. he is a dj on the weekends. So that ment no weekends together. he is a very clean man his hair the way he dress everything is pretty clean besides his truck and his bedroom. he loves to stare at me with his eyes. I thought that was ok with me. When we have planes it was like I brock them a-lot but when we do go out. he doesn't even know how to tret a lady. we do go out and have fun then then on a suddley he get mad and pissed off for something i say he holds every word i say to him. he loves not taking me out he rather stay in bed with me and have soup for dinner. he does like walking, bik ridding, things that are free. he wants to have a babby with me. he has many woman friends then guy friends on his phone and in his surroundings, he knows how to pick sexy underwear and brows. one thing that is werriod to me is that he has girlly stuff like powder for your face,girly hairstuff to make your hair shine, and everytime i bring up the situation about something gay he laughs at me and he gives me a hell no i'am not gay because i have asked him myself i have meet two of his friends one is married and the other one is i don't know can you help me figure this out thanks oh yea he is very mucle guy i don't know if that helps out. he says to me when their is a lady that tries to pick him up. he doesn't seem to notice or maybe he does know thats what he says to me

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A male reader, Sherry123 United States +, writes (20 January 2011):

He sounds abusive. He's not the one, run.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (20 January 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntAre you asking if he's gay?

Well have you guys had sex, how is he at that? He sounds a little in touch with his feminine side..so he has taste in clothes and is very particular about styling his hair. Doesn't mean he's gay, just means he takes a little pride in his appearance. Would a gay guy tell you he wants to have a baby with you? No. If he was gay, he would be shopping with you, telling you the latest trends, and making you sit while he styled your hair and giggle over the the latest Us Weekly.

How many gay DJs do you know? I don't know any.

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