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female
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anonymous
writes:So I have gotten myself into a real mess and I do realise it. I have been dating a guy that lives in a different country, for several months. He has made several references to getting married, as well as asked directly. The problem is he has changed since the beginning of the year. He has stopped calling me, totally (he used to call at least twice a week) he still comes online to talk to me (according to him, I am the only one he has on his IM contact list)But, I always have to go and talk to him first He askes me to text him every morning, yet he never replies. He never tells me he loves me first anymore either, and if I say it he only replies with 'love you too'He went through a messy devorce a few years ago and I know there are complications with his children and therefore I do realise that he is probably going through a hard time now. So, is it time for me to move on or should I hang around and support him?
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reader, AuntyMaur  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 Long distant relationships are diffcult.
Perhaps frustration is setting in. It truly is your decision wether to end this online distant relationship or move forward perhaps with someone whom lives closer.
I know its difficult letting go but If it were me I would let him go so you can have a more fulfilling relationship with someone who lives closer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for replying. I did ask him if he still feels the same. and he said yes. He really does hang around online to talk to me, but his constant moods is getting to me. I love him but I dont know what to do anymore
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reader, AuntyMaur +, writes (20 January 2011):
We all go through difficult times but this should not be an excuse to treat the people we love badly or ignore them.
It appears this is a 1 sided relationship - something has changed. I would call him and tell him how your feeling...ask him if he truly feels the same as you, follow your gut feeling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2011): Tell him goodbye. He's to wishy washy. Your one will not be wishy washy.
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