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How to win him over?

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Question - (20 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey everyone,im a 21 year old gay guy and i am madly in love with a guy who goes to work with me.Well i am no hottie,well i have kinda pretty eyes and long legs but i am not very hot.But this guy who im talking about is like the sexiest man in this world.He's 26 with the best body and the most mindblowing smile and i cant get my head off him.I think he's gay,some people in office told me he's dated not a single girl since he's been working which is when he was 17.So that probablly makes him gay.Well two days i caught him staring into my face but then he looked away as soon as i caught him.Later i went up to him to ask about some work(it was the first time i talked to him),but he didnt even look at me.He looked too busy in his work to not even look at me while answering me.He kept typing with his eyes fixed on the screen.I badly want this guy.He does look at me sometimes a day but never pays attention to me.How do i win him over?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011):

i'm gay and i have experience on these issues. I'm sure he likes you ;) make a move on him.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (20 January 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntOk first off just because he hasnt dated any girls since he has worked there doesnt mean that he is gay. He may very well have been dating but didnt tell anyone at work as he may be the sort of person that keeps his social life private.

So dont just expect that he is gay as you may end up getting the wrong end of the stick. Try communicating with him as much as you can. Maybe ask him to join you for lunch some day at work and get to know him a bit better. Try and find out what his hobbies and interests are and work from there. Maybe find out what kind of movies he is in to and invite him to watch one of them with you. Or maybe organise a night out and invite a few guys from work. This will give you a better oppertunity to get to know him better.

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A male reader, EPocket Palestinian Territory - Occupied +, writes (20 January 2011):

EPocket agony auntbreak the ice and spit it out . but be-careful when and where u do this .

chose right time and right place and say how u feel . thats all

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