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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:HiI dated a guy around five times and we both are interested. Around two weeks ago I told him that I will move. He became sad. I told him to think if he want a long distance relationship and answer me. He agreed.Until now he did not answer me. Does it mean that he is still thinking or what? If a guy does not answer, does it mean that he is not interested and he thiks that this is an enough answer?
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (18 October 2009):
 Actually, he may not even think you are "IN" a relationship yet. Its only been five dates, and men are a bit funny about giving relationship a status too soon.
He may think you have just been dating - casual, seeing each other. This is not the same as "a relationship".
You turning round and asking if he wants a LDR has probably scared him,especially if he thinks he isnt in a relationship now. LDR means serious. It means commitment, and it means more work on his part. Have you had sex yet?If it is just casual dating, then he will not want the hassle, and Im sorry to say, he is probably ignoring you, hoping you will get the hint. Its harsh that he cant talk to you, but this is the way a lot of guys work.
Im really sorry.
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female
reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (18 October 2009):
I think that as you have only been on 5 dates with this guy, then you are probably best to part and go your seperate ways. Long distance relationships are hard enough for established couples let alone those who barely know each other.
If you move, you are going to be surrounded by lots of new people, new men etc. He will be on his own and lonely.
Its only been 5 dates. Unless you really see a future with this guy, let him go.
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