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anonymous
writes:So I have this tiny problem where I attract the wrong guys. Okay, I think there has to be some kind of physical attraction and not to be mean but i keep attracting nerds. Lik no joke. They are the only ones to talk to me and it just bugs me. What can I do? Reply to this Question |
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (17 October 2009):
 Rhythm and blues is right!
¿Cuál es lo que tienen de malo los nerds?
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female
reader, TalkingHelps  +, writes (15 October 2009):
 Define nerd.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): Are you really Mexican (your flag)?
If you are... ¿Qué malo tiene que atraes tantos nerds admiradores? I'm sure they are just attracted to your encantos and because you are so buena onda. Perhaps you should describe the type of guy you're looking for, i.e. the non nerd. What is your ideal guy like that he isn't one of those nerdy types?
Otra cosa, you should be thankful that you are getting at least some attention from your nerd fans. Many girls do not get attention from anyone. If the nerds stop bugging you, don't think that the hot guys are just going to start looking for you, mamacita.
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reader, q1605 +, writes (15 October 2009):
 Fem anon. How do you know I am not a nerd deflecting the pain of never fitting in with humor. I am glad you got my attention though. Like a sighting of big foot, I finally found definitive proof that acknowledges the nice guy never getting the girl paradox that we guys see and women never cop to. And I found it in your post.
"most nerds are shy so maybe you look like someone that is "safe" for them to approach and I wouldn't call these the wrong guys, some of them might make really good friends"
Busted. Now I can search for the verifiable existence of paranormal activity.
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reader, Moviefan + ♥, writes (15 October 2009):
 Unless they are not clean or repulsive give them a chance, most nerds as you put it make better bf then the type you want. your lucky i responded you have me irritated. Im a nerd, not a bad thing.
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reader, satindesire +, writes (15 October 2009):
 What's wrong with nerds? I married one and he's hot and smart, funny as hell, knows random trivia to comic books, video games, and awesome TV shows, and can fix my computer. I'd say that's a damn fine catch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): Think about it you might be doing nerdy things and not realize it or your just way too friendly and they might get the wrong impression.
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reader, rhythmandblues2 + ♥, writes (15 October 2009):
 Just remember, it is the nerds in school who grow up to be smart successful men, the coolest guys are often worthless womanizers or drunks by the time they grow into adulthood.
I am sure Bill Gates was an extreme nerd in high school, know who he is? Have you ever heard of Microsoft? Windows?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2009): honestly q1605? if you are going to be a smartass then why even post an answer? but anyways, you are probably attracting nerds because there is something about you that makes them feel comfortable. most nerds are shy so maybe you look like someone that is "safe" for them to approach. and i wouldnt call these the wrong guys, some of them might make really good friends...you never know. i understand the attraction thing though. but just keep being nice to them but let them know you are not interested if they try to get too close. lay down the boundaries. hope this helps!
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reader, q1605 +, writes (15 October 2009):
Quit trolling Star Trek conventions.
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