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female
age
30-35,
*orrytoomuch
writes:I met a guy at a concert and he was VERY flirty with me the whole evening. Just very outgoing and tried to keep conversation going with me the whole night. At the end of the evening, he asked for my number and the next day he called. I missed his call because I had gone to bed early so I returned it the next day. We ended up talking on the phone for 4 hours!! (Not all at once.. an hour here, an hour there). We just asked each other questions about our lives and just sorta got to know each other. I go to college in a town that is a little over an hour from where he lives (also the city I am from). We made plans to have a date when I would be in town next. The whole week we talked every day on the phone and usually several times a day. We always talked for a long time and when we were not talking, we'd text. The conversations were full of getting to know you type stuff and we just seemed to really hit it off. He was very direct and very bold with telling me how he was interested in seeing where things could go and that he was very interested in me. He would always give me tons of compliments and even told me he told his friends about me and they wanted to meet me..He also seemed very interested in my life. After the week of talking non stop, the weekend comes and I had a previous trip planned. I went out of town and spent the weekend there. During my trip we slowly stopped talking as much as we had during the week. When I arrived back from my trip he called me and we talked for about an hour. However, ever since the night I got back, he's seemed a lot more distant. He doesn't text me as much and hasn't called me since Sunday when I got back from my trip. I know it's probably not a big deal but it just seems weird to me that he wanted to talk so much and we had such long conversations last week and now it's significantly less and he hasn't even called. We have plans for our date this weekend and he texted me earlier today saying he was excited for it. I guess my question is.. does it sound like his interest level has gone down? He used to be always wanting to talk and now it doesn't seem like that at all. I just don't know if he is playing around or is serious, ya know?Any thoughts?
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