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*ilveknifex
writes:My girlfriend is acting, untouchy?So today my girlfriend was acting rather odd, on the phone last night before she went to work she told me she hearted me, (She nevers says that first) then at the end of our phone convo last night she told me not to say it cus she knew I was gunan say it, anyways today she was acting rather weird she didn't want me to touch her and she barely wanted me to kiss her, I only got to kiss her once today which kinda was odd cus we usually kiss every day, I asked her what was wrong and she said "she just doesn't want anyone touching her today".Does anyone know what this is or am I over analyzing this, and should I not just worry about it? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (8 January 2009):
 Sounds like she's withdrawing from you. I know I used to avoid my boyfriends like the plague when I just wasn't feeling it. I made a lot of excuses not to be affectionate with them while in my mind I was starting to disconnect from them.
Now I'm not saying that she's for sure checking out of your relationship, she may just need a little time to herself. Maybe it's PMS, maybe she's got a lot on her mind. It's only been a few days, maybe she's just feeling icky and angsty. But, I would talk to her about your relationship and if she needs some space or anything.
Good luck, sweetness!!
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (8 January 2009):
 I would definitely look to this as a red flag. I remember back in my teens telling my then boyfriend that I didn't want him to kiss me sometimes. Why? I was going off him! Soon after, we split up. Your girlfriend has something (or someone) else on her mind. If this continues you should talk to her and let her know you know she's not been the same and ask her to be truthful with you, tell her she owes you that much. Good luck!
~Eve~
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reader, UnfinishedSymphony  +, writes (8 January 2009):
 As a girl myself, I am fully conscious of the fact us girls are not in fact identical. I'd love to beable to tell you why she is reacting in the way, but I simply can't. All I can do is merely add suggestions. 1) Shes experiencing that "why am i feeling this way? i should be feeling this way mood?". Me and my girlfriends feel this way on a daily basis. Its unexplainable, everything is over analysed and most of all frustrating. You put yourself in a shell and zone yourself out from others. All the above is purely due to hormones 2)Sorry to say, But it might not be working for her. 3)She might need space? No matter what the reason for her acting differently out of the blue...you'll find out soon. If it persists, simply address the problem, shes a girl shell be bound to open up to you about it trust me. Dont overthink, at the end of the day...shes the one whos been doing the thinking and has her mind set. Just find out for yourself :)
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