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I'm scared I'm not big enough for her!

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Question - (5 January 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2009)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I have never had sex but me and my girlfriend want to. I worry about my penis. I measured it and it's 5.5 inches but I'm only sixteen. Her ex was about 2 or 3 inches longer from what I've been told. I'm scared.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009):

Basically the problem is that some girls do like big penises, even if they hurt a little, just like some girls like to be chocked or slapped.

But you cannot center your life around this type of girl assuming your girlfriend is one of those.

Because if you start doing that, then you'd have to ask yourself if her ex used to hit her during sex and she like that and if she's going to miss that as well.

You see where I'm going with all this? You have to trust her and be sure she's a normal girl. If she is, then she won't give that much importance to your tool (which has a normal size by the way).

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2009):

hun you have a normal sized penis.

men need to stop worrying about the size of their ding dongs! you know what i agree with satindesire, big penis's just hurt and are not that enjoyable! only porn star women enjoy them. which brings me to probably why men are obsessed with penis watch too much of it and then all men think if they dont have a 10 inch sausage their woman will not orgasm. it;s totally unrealistic and men need to realise that women get turned on by what a guy can do and how he can use his penis,fingers,mouth! forget penis size. it;s only guys who have problems with it.

i came across one man on here who told some poor boy that his small penis would not be enough to please a woman, so i commented and told him he was talking crap and the stupid idiot sent me a pm message saying "of course a small penis is no good" so i replied saying "oh i missed the part where you have had experience of a small penis" that made him thing abit and i put him straight.

see it;s just stupid ego-tistical males who make other guys with smaller penis's feel bad, when really they are the ones with the perfect sized penis's, because they won't hurt us girls and will make us feel amazing. so really you are normal and very lucky.

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A female reader, dt1213 United States +, writes (6 January 2009):

im 17 years old and my boyfriend did the same exact thing to me. It took him 8 months for him to even let me go near that area. He told me that was it because of his size and i pretty much told him that he was insane. Girlfriends will like you for who you are.. not for the size of your penis. It truthfully doesnt matter. Theres no need to worry.

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A female reader, Stayc63088 United States +, writes (5 January 2009):

Stayc63088 agony auntOh that doesn't matter! My ex is 2in bigger than my current boyfriend. I couldn't care less. It's about how she feels about you. Besides, just because he is bigger doesn't mean he is better. There are reasons she is with you besides your penis size anyhow. You have nothing to worry about, you are completely normal. If she cared that much about your size then she is a slut and doesn't care about you at all, and I doubt that's the case. Good luck and have fun.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009):

Don't be scared, I'm 18 and you're bigger than me. Just pay attention to what she likes! Perform oral to build her up! And when you have sex just pay attention to what she likes.

I'd probably learn how to pleasure each other orally or with hands and fingers before you have sex...

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A female reader, Calmechaos United States +, writes (5 January 2009):

Like I've said before... If she doesn't like you because of your penis size then you shouldn't be with her in the first place.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (5 January 2009):

DoubleM agony auntYou're normal.

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