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Am I making a fool out of myself and looking stupid?

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Question - (27 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2009)
A female Australia age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am wondering if anyone can give me some advice.

I recently met a friend of a friend who I am very attracted to.

I am just out of a long relationship so I am a little out of practise at the dating game!

The first time I met this guy was when I went to a club with my friends and we were all dancing in a group. We were all drunk and having a great time. However the next night we all went out I had to introduce myself to him because he couldn't remember me from the first night :(

When I talk to this guy, he is friendly. He teases me and I tease him. He is lots of fun. He even playfully touched my forearm one night and I pinched him back (he pulled away the second time I tried to do it) I added him on MySpace and he accepted and the other night I started IM'ing him. He was in the middle of writing an essay (he's studying English) but he chatted to me for about an hour and when I asked was I distracting him he said it was ok. Then he said he was just going to store for a while but when he came back online he didn't resume our conversation. However I think he was trying to get the essay done because it was due the next day.

In real life, when we talk, the conversations are always initiated by me. We have been on nights out with our friends and we could both be sitting not talking to anyone but he won't come over to me, I have to go over to him. Because of this I am beginning to feel really stupid and like I am making a fool of

myself and he will think I'm easy.

Do you think he likes me?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009):

*Bump*

Thanks Jager,

Has anyone else got any advice?

I think I might just give up on this guy...

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A male reader, Jager  United Kingdom +, writes (27 January 2009):

I think he does like you. But you have the advantage here, don't go to him flirt across the room if you have to but don't go over.

Leave it for him to make the next move. If he doesn't then act as though your not interested this can work very well

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