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writes:Me and my boyfriend broke up. I'm so hurt. I really fell in love with him. I know I'm young and I never thought I could fall in love this young and share my feelings so strongly with another person but this boy was amazing. We were so close and everything. It was perfect except the fights. We were both getting fed up with all the fighting so we said we had to talk (this was online). He said I treated him like crap and that I start fights for no reason. He said he wanted to go on a break but I said no, a relationship or nothing. Then we were fighting again so it's over.. and it's killing me. I never really told him the reason for me starting fights. It was because I really loved him and cared so much and I didn't want to lose him. Like he would do stuff that would make me think he'd leave me but I guess he never really understood.. So now we're nothing at all. No communication whatsoever. I see him every day at school and that's gonna be tough. It's really hurting me and I've talked to lots of people about it and they tell me it will get better over time and to move on.. but it's just so hard. People don't understand what we had.. it was special. What we had was amazing and Ii can't believe it's really over. How could you go from one second to loving one another so much then it just all ends? I honestly did love him with all my heart, still do and always will. What should I do about this because I can't think of anything else, all I do is cry and think about him. Believe me I've tried soo hard to get my mind off it but I just can't.. help me please? thanks xx
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reader, lovesagiftkeepitsafe  +, writes (27 January 2009):
 I understand how you feel, I was in a two year relaionship with a guy I was head over heals for, we where so good and strong untill the last few months of our relationship, when he told me he didn't love me and that he wanted to move on, I felt as if my life had caved in, all my friends told me that it would pass and I'd move on. I really loved him and from this day still do. I know it's not like your problem but I can kinda relate. It's not going to be easy especially if you go to the same school. Maybe you should tell him how you feel and tell him the reason for the arguments. I can't promise that it will help but at least then he knows how you feel, and if it's too hard telling him face to face write him a letter. I find it's easier to write down your feelings than saying it to the one you love face to face. Everyone has their own way. Good luck, I hope this helps. xxx
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