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anonymous
writes:I feel like i'm losing my boyfriend. We met on holiday and i just fell in love with him and ever since then we spend hours on the phone every night and meet up with each other when we can.The last time i saw him we got caught having sex by his mum. Ever since then i feel so different talking to him. We have started arguing about the most simple things but we never had an argument before the last time i saw him. I just feel like i'm losing him. What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): You ought to treat being caught as something of a joke for a start. The rest is simple - stop arguing. Are simple things really worth arguing about?
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reader, carriebaby +, writes (27 January 2009):
 Getting caught by his mum has been a real embarrassment for him and you too of course but because its his mum its worse. Ask him whats wrong? Having sex isnt a crime unless your under 16 of course and im some part of our liives we all get caught in an awkward position.. Speak to him about it and tell him you know it was embarrassing but you can get through it as you love him. Ask him why you are arguing over silly things... is he arguin with you to try make you go off him and dump h im because he doesnt have the guts to do it himself..i personally just think hes been embarrassed and his mum has probably warned him not to see you... MUms know best - well so they think...I think you both will get through this and eventaully laugh about it...Explain to him you love him !! Good luck
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