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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Okay so I been talkin to this guy for like 3 weeks now and I am really likein him a lot. I have never met him before I was wondering if us talkin sexual to each other will ruin anything between us? Because I wanna take things slow between us and really get to know him on a personal level, I have been hurt way to many times and don't want it to happen to me again, how can I tell whether if I'm gonna be another girl on his list or if I'm really a girl that he wants to settle down with? Also how can I keep his interests on me and not let his eyes wonder? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009): Ask him what his intentions with dating are, and tell him yours. You're looking for someone to settle down with? Is he? In case he is, I am sure he will let you know if you are potential or not.
But don't jump to sexual talks or sex until you are both in love and emotionally ready. Many men don't think "easy" girls are wife-material. They like a woman with standars, so show him you got them.
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