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writes:[Moderator note: Please do not post identifying information about yourself]My boyfriend will bring me for a 10 days holiday in Firenze and he will pay everything for me. But at the end of the holiday I will tell him that I booked a flight for a 3 week holiday in january with another guy. Do you think that I will hurt him? He will feel used? Reply to this Question
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reader, L*  +, writes (16 December 2009):
are you serious? of course he'll be hurt. and didn't you at least offer to pay half the trip? or are you one of those selfish girls who think that men should pay everything??
you're a user and you're going to hurt this boyfriend of yours...break up with him and let him find someone who's got her head screwed on.
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reader, old-spinstah  +, writes (16 December 2009):
Of course it'll hurt him. Unless it's your brother or dad you're going with! This guy obviously considers himself as being in a serious relationship otherwise he wouldn't be paying for everything!!
Dump your boyfriend now if you don't want him and forget about Firenze. At the very least you should pay for your half of the trip.
Or forget about your holiday with the other guy. Why are going on holiday with another guy anyway if you already have a boyfriend? How many holidays do you need??
You could do both holidays but that would make you seem selfish and like a user to many people.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 December 2009):
He will feel hurt and used. If you're his girlfriend, why are you going with another man? It would be kinder to dump him now, and not hurt him.
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 Heck yes, he'll feel used! You're planning to let him pay for a vacation (and everything) for you, then you're going to dump him for another man? If you're going to leave him, do it BEFORE he spends that much on you! "Feels" like you'd be using him. No ifs ands or buts, that WOULD be using him!
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reader, Illithid +, writes (16 December 2009):
Heck yes, he'll feel used! You're planning to let him pay for a vacation (and everything) for you, then you're going to dump him for another man? If you're going to leave him, do it BEFORE he spends that much on you! "Feels" like you'd be using him. No ifs ands or buts, that WOULD be using him!
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