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writes: Okay I started dating this girl about 2 to 3 months back. She's really nice and she is very attractive. Anyway after about a month of dating she said she wasn't in the right place at the time. She just wanted to be friends and she wished we could have been more but we just couldn't. Blah, blah, blah! Heard it all before..... To be honest I was upset at this because I'd really fallen for her but I respected her decision because I liked her so much and knew the right thing to do was to leave her alone. Which I did.Anyway, after a week or so she started to text me asking how I was? What I was upto? The usual, and again, being honest I kept the texts short. Not rude. Just short. Another couple of weeks passed and she said she was wondering if I was okay as she hadn't seen me? Hoped I was okay? Which I told her I was.So today she asked me what I was upto. I told her I had christmas shopping to do and she told me she did too and that we should meet up. I thought why not so we did. We met and she was brilliant! She helped me buy for my family. We had a good laugh.....Then she took me for dinner. I was a little surprised at this! She then insisted on paying and said it was because I always paid when we were dating. Again I was surprised! Then the big shock! She asked if I wanted to go back to hers for coffee? Can I just point out this is still early evening about 7. I said why not. So I did. We had coffee and chatted until about 9 and I said I should make a move. I left and we just had a "friend" cuddle. Nothing more. Or it wasn't for me anyway. I got home text her to say I had a great day because I had. Then she text me to tell me she did too AND that she LOVED spending time with me! Not liked! Not enjoyed! But LOVED! And that anytime I wanted to call and go to hers I could!So my question is - What the hell is going on? Does she just feel guilty and wants to make amends? Does she just want to be friends? Does she want more? Or is she playing game, which I don't think she is?I don't want to ask because I don't want to embarrass myself or anything.What should I do?Thanks in advance for all replys!
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reader, Advice_man  +, writes (17 December 2009):
 I would say "Approach with caution!" Women can be very manipulative and snicky so i wouldn't be surprised if she is just playing games and just wants attention to satisfy her ego. Of course she could be interested indeed. I would go with her flow...let her reveal what she wants, don't make any moves just yet! I am sure about one thing. If a girl is interested she makes sure you have no doubts about it! Best of luck! Just courious update us of whats she is afterall: player or potential gf...
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCan anybody help with this at all?
Would really like opinions?
And I don't want to make an idiot of myself if she's just being friendly.
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