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*herrypop
writes:It's me again...Got another question about me and my friend. He's the first man I ever been with,so there's still things I haven't figured out. I don't know how to really "read" men...well read him anyway. I mean how do I know I'm pleasing him? My theory has always been that if he didn't like it, he wouldn't keep coming back. However, I've heard that it could be a case of "free sex he don't have to pay for." How do I know I'm doing it for him? I've asked him stuff before, like what does he like for me to do, I've asked him how it was afterwards, which he always says "Great", but how do I know if he's just saying that to spare my feelings? I know I'm very inexperienced, and if there's something I need to be doing/not doing, I wanna know, so I can improve. I can't fix what I don't know is wrong.For example, I wish I was better on top. I can't bounce up and down a girate like those girls on the porno--I'm a little bigger than they are. So that's like a every-blue-moon thing I'll attempt when he pulls me up there.To be honest, he's more focused on pleasing me than anything. (The way he sucks and licks my pussy you would think it was made of gold! It feels so good...)But I want to please him too. I want to drive him crazy the same way he drives me crazy. How do I do that? Or is that possible to do to a man?
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reader, cherrypop +, writes (7 April 2009):
cherrypop is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well talking to him is what I have tried to do. I ask him if there's anything I'm doing wrong or that turns him off, but for some reason he takes that as me being too emotional or as he says "thinking too hard" or "thinking too much".I know it's only sex between us--nothing else, but does that mean we can't talk? It seems sometimes when I ask or say stuff, he fears I want more from him. I don't. I just want to be good at it.
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