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anonymous
writes:I don't no whats going on with me and my bf we've been together 5 years ok we had a big row a couple of months ago and sai not nice things and broke up but now we are back together. He hasn't said i love since Christmas he always used to say before row everyday. He will say it if i say it first or ask him. Today i text and put Just wanted you to know i love you very much xxx his reply was ok m8x. I felt so hurt is it going to take time to get back where we were cuz of row and nasty stuff said or has he changed. he must still have feelings for me if we got back together, i just don't know what to think i'm hoping i just have to be paitent what do you think ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): Yes he put ok m8 i thought he might have put luv you 2 so i was a bit hurt. His mum died yesterday so i was letting him know that i love him. If he still had doubts i don't understand why he got back with me i don't feel i can sit him down at moment with what has happened to his mum.
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reader, crazykit666 +, writes (6 April 2009):
I think he is deliberately distancing himself so he can prepare himself for the worst again. Either that, or he doesn't feel quite the same anymore. Sorry, I didn't understand your post very well... did you put that he said "ok mate x"?? I think you may need to reassess your relationship with this man, something is obviously wrong!Maybe take some time away from him? This may make him realise that he misses you lots or make you realise that it is time to move on. Before you do any of this though, you really need to sit down and talk to him about your concerns and his behaviour. Explain that things aren't the same and that you love him very much but can not carry on if something doesn't change. Remember, never be in a relationship that you aren't happy with- either change or forget it! Let me know what you think? Best of luck!! x
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