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writes:Okay so, I have been dating this guy on and off for almost 3 years. He says he loves me but I'm so jealous because he used to cheat on me so much. He has changed so much and he treats me so much better. I need help on being a better gf and not so jealous.
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reader, boo boos +, writes (29 April 2009):
I get jealous all the time i check my boyfriends tv and look at the shows he has been watching. Its insane. some advice... Unless its a huge deal that u are sincerly uncomfotable about, don't nag him. it will only push him to do whatever it is he is doing more. You want him to want you so get past whatever it is. Don't bitch dont dewl on the small stuff just think about everything else he is doing that is positive. Bitching could lead to bad things. you want him to desire you not feel like your his mom. Jealousy lives in everyone. how we handle it is what counts
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (29 April 2009):
 You are responding to the things your b/f did that violated your trust. He did this not you. Some women are pretty laid back about their jealousies. I suspect those women have never had bad experiences with men. Others have experienced a loss of trust when they loved a guy, which makes them more keen to the games people play. Use it wisely. I'm sure if he has truly changed, in time you will learn to trust him again and relax about certain things. But it's going to take a long time. You cannot rush this process. Maybe he will come to realize how damaging it is to cheat on someone who loves him.
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reader, RaeMay +, writes (29 April 2009):
 you have to think about if he really loves you. if he cheated on you then why would he have cheated on you in the first place? people say that once a cheater always a cheater but i dont believe that. i believe that people can change and if he really did then you should be able to trust him. relationships are based on trust and if you dont trust eachother then it might not be the guy for you. but you have to look for signs that he loves you for real. and as for you being jelous, its normal. everyone gets jealous. its human. but why do yo uget jealous? does he flirt with other girls? anyway i hope this advice works for you and i hope things get better. i dont know him and im not gong to tell you what to do. but i hope that i was at least some help.
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