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anonymous
writes:Hello, i was talking to my ex-boyfriend, and he said we can be friends. im fine with that.He also said we could be friends with benifits. What did he mean?thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank You. Well we wouldnt be having sex anyays, because it was a long distance relationship. I mean long! he's in NY im in WA. Yeas i still do love him, but i left him. I didnt argee to the fwb. Besides im looking for a guy that doesnt care much at all for sex, it really frusterates me when a guy wants to talk or something, but he wants something else. Anyays thanks guys n gals!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (1 May 2009):
 FWB is a term that horny guys use to make having sex without a relationship seem like a normal, regular idea. That's easy because guys can have sex without getting pregnant and without getting emotionally involved - in other words - it's just masturbation to them - not a relationship. Women are programmed to become emotionally attached to the guy they sleep with, because nature has programmed them to pair bond in order to raise their babies.
If you fall for this nonsense, I have a great used car that I'd like to sell you...
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reader, lovinlife91 +, writes (28 April 2009):
 in most cases, he's not that into you, he just wants to be friends and still wants to mess around like you two was when ya still was together. & most of the time it's really hard because there is no love in the "benefriends" deal! just straight lust. if i were you i would stay clear of the whole situation!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (28 April 2009):
 It's a new term for a very, very, old senario. Don't sucker for it.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (28 April 2009):
 It means he doesn't love you, care about your feelings or anything else a guy should feel about his girlfriend. But he thinks that you are a bit "easy" and that you still like him so he can take advantage of you and date other girls at the same time.
Guys who do this to girls are players and want to mess around with you and any other girls they can find.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): I agree with the other guys - I wouldn't go getting involved with him, because at least right now, all he's interested in is having sex with no emotion attached. Thats not necessarily a good or bad thing, you just have to decide if you're willing to do it. Personally, I wouldnt simply because he is an ex boyfriend, and you may still have some underlying feelings for him. Just don't get caught in a trap where you're sleeping with him cus you love him, but he's sleeping with you cus you'll let him.
I hope it all works out mate :) Good luck.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (28 April 2009):
 yep, below is true. Friends with benifits are also people (in your case) boys who just want to have you in their little black book. Thats not to say he wont have feelings for you he will when he wants to be with you. It just means there wont be a future with you and him but rather a sexual one. So you are friends just having sex.
I agree also with satindesire. And You don't want to find yourself being labeled something you wont like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): "friends with benefits" is basically sex buddies. in other words he could call you and ask if you wanted to meet up (which would actually mean get together for some casual meaningless sex) and if your reply was yes, then by some kind of slut magic he would appear on your doorstep quicker then you could say "well screw me sideways and call me sandra!"
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reader, mrs.smith81608 +, writes (28 April 2009):
If you're age is correct (between 13-15 years old) neither one of you should be thinking of "FWB." I don't mean to discriminate against your age, but well, your emotions are not stable enough at your age to handle something like that.
I don't reccommend it either. It's not a good decision for a young lady such as yourself to even consider. You are WAY more valuable than that! Find a guy that wants you for you and not for your anatomy!
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reader, siiLviia  +, writes (28 April 2009):
It doesnt necesarilly mean sex, but stuff like, kissing, touching, making out; but with no strings attached. no feelings or anything like that, it's not a relationship.
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reader, Djmclucas113 +, writes (28 April 2009):
 Ya that just means that u guys r friends but u fulfill eachotjers sexual need but just to let u know things usually don't work out that well if u choose that path especialy if it's with an ex but it's ur decision just think it through before doing anything
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): Friends with benefits means, friends who have sex with no strings attached. basically you use each other.
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