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writes:i am really in love with this guy, and he really loves me. but we're not together because i am scared. he split up with his girlfriend (one of my best friends) a few months ago, and i am scared all my other friends will judge me if we start seeing each other. although his ex has moved on she says it still will hurt her. and i dont know what to do because i really like this guy.
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reader, crimson_kiss  +, writes (28 April 2009):
 You really should take the time to talk to your best friend and explain the situation. It is showing her some respect for your friendship and her feelings. If she has a problem with it, you will have to decide and make the choice between a best friend and a boyfriend.
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reader, Idiosyncratic +, writes (28 April 2009):
 It stings knowing that your best friend is dating your ex and she might be sour with it. You should talk to her about it and ask her if she would be okay with you dating him. Apart from that you'll have to decide whats worth it, your best friend you can definately keep, or this guy. Good luck =)
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (28 April 2009):
 Who's more important, this guy, or your best friend?
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reader, always.curious.ray. +, writes (28 April 2009):
 date him! its your choice not their's and if they are your true friends they will understand. and if you guys brake up then they should be there for you and if not than they are not your true friends.
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (28 April 2009):
 If she is really your best friend she will understand as long as you talk to her about it first.. If she's REALLY not okay with it then you need to decide what's more important to you!
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