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writes:ok so where do i start?? i am 20, nearly 21. When i was 13 i met this boy who was 14 on a chatroom. we used to text all the time and really really liked eachother. for just over 7 years we have kept i contact on and off. i hadnt heard from him for about a year and about 2 months ago he got back in contact with me and wer gettin back into how we were before. He is absolutely gorgeous and iv sent him pis of me ect. We are going to meet eachother this sat just for drinks ect. I am worried though that he won't like me though and i'm scared of rejection. Hes saying that hes fallen for my peronality. but sometimes i just get rly insecure bout the way i look. at upper school some girls in the year above used to say 'err ugly cow, flat face' ect. i know i have a 'flatish' face but dnt think im ugly, i dnt rly notice it anyway as i always see myself?? honestly anyway now im just having 2nd thoughts bout meeting him. just incase in my pics he thinks im georgeous and when i actually see him he dnt think so. am i just being overly nervous??thank youuuu
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2009): If he's seen your pics he knows what you look like and could have backed off before. Don't let what others said years ago spoil meeting up with him. He likes your personality and that's much more important in the long run anyway. He's probably as nervous as you so just keep that in mind and be yourself. Hope it all works out nicely for you.
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reader, Pythagorean_Variable  +, writes (28 April 2009):
I believe you just have the shakes, this is typical of any person you meet on the internet. The most important thing to realize is people you meet on the internet genuinely fall for your personality, I haven't seen any relationship based off that internet that came from sending each other pictures, for that doesn't communicate anything about you, your words touched his heart.And as for meeting him, don't miss out on the opportunity! Go and meet him! You won't regret it.For better or worse, treat this not only as a romantic experience but an educational one, find out what you like in a man!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionawww thank u!! yeah we are both nervous about the 1st convo lol! i'm sure we'll be fine. thanks 4 ur reply :) makes me feel better!!xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): I think you are just being nervous hun. He is talking to a computer screen normally, so yes falling for personality is a high option. You sound like an ordinary young woman. Stop being nervous, you should meet him anyway and you will, you won't be backing out of it so why worry and make yourself ill? If it goes badly, you won't need to see him again as it's an internet relationship. At the same time, it is always usually easier to speak to someone online so if it does go badly, then you can both be honest in your comfort zones and hopefully take it from there. Unless you sent him photographs that arnt you, i wouldn't worry about them. I met a boy i was in love with from the net and had a 2 and a half year serious relationship with him. The only thing to worry about is the conversation when you meet up lol. It can be awkward to start off with, but an hour later you'll be chatting away! Good luck! (i'm 20, 21 in january too).
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