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writes:I have a brief separation in progress and since being online i dont emotionally feel bothered. I am not sure how much stress im copying with separating from my partner, and this worries me. My need to communciate with other people via internet or personal councilling, concerning my life and how unsure i am with my choices and how they could be effecting people around me is slightly making me crazy. It doesnt look like we are equal partners and my perfect world is falling apart since the comments from my partner is Nil.I have forced by partner to pack up and leave so he has just left home with his clothes and he looked angry at me?NevermindIve done alot of self searching towards a better life for me, and i cant fix what doesnt seem fixable.Im i thinking right?Should i get councilling for my kids for separating parents?What will i be expecting to happen after all communication between us is gone?Will we cope as a family without dad?What if he wants to come back? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008): People have done it before, so its obviously possible to do it again. I know lots of people; cousins, friends, and nearly myself and its easily possible.
Consuelling might be a bit much, but it depends on how they take it. Kids generally don't seem to be phased by it, but some do, and thats when they might need help.
If he wants to come back, thats obviously the time you need to be adults and talk about what went wrong, and whats going to be different this time, if there is a this time.
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