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writes:Well, there's this guy I've known for a very long time. For about a month or two recently, there were many rumours that he liked me. I thought they were true cos he got all concern over the littlelest things that happen to me. But currently, he doesn't even seem to give a hoot about what happens to me or what I do. He avoids me and his instant messages are short and abrupt. He doesn't listen to me when I'm talking at all. Then I saw him flirting with one of my best friends so I knew he fancied her now so I just left him alone. Them 2 days ago I caught him staring at me and giving me strange glances. When I got to school this morning, he did it again and it totally freaked me out! Them when I tried avoiding his gaze, at the corner of my eye, i got an alarmed face. It really creeped me out so if some one can suggest what might be going on, I would really appreciate it.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (1 October 2008):
 You're welcome. I kind of understand what you mean. Flirting is one thing, but I don't like it when guys stare at me, either. lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you. My other best friend is also experiencing the same thing because of the same guy but he told her straight that he doesn't like her. I'm feeling confused because there were 2 weeks he cared so much, 4 weeks he totally ignored me and another 3 weeks flirting. Then right now he ignores me but still stares. I'd rather he like my best friend that i mentioned in this reply cos I used to have a thing for him but I guess you could say he's now just my childhood friend that i care deeply about. He's giving my other friend mixed signals and flirts with her alot too but she realised that he liked the other girl. And thanks for taking the time to answer
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (30 September 2008):
I'd avoid him, flirting with you, then with your friend, unless he was trying to make you jealous. Ask him what's going on.
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