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anonymous
writes:i've been in a long distance relationship for a year now. We live really far away and only get to see each other once every 6 weeks. I suppose i'm an paranoid person at heart and i'm always worrying about how many times i should phone him etc. But it's always me phoning him, even though due to things it is better for me to phone him, it still feels like everything is one way, i mean, why can't he pick up the phone once. Every time i speak to him he always says he's missed talking to me, but it gets me thinking why doesn't he phone me if he wants to talk.I haven't spoken to him in a week now and it's really getting to me. I dont' like how he says he misses me yet, when it comes to not talking for a week, he won't call me, just leaves it for me to do.I sent him a text last night saying how i felt and how he made me feel, but still nothing...It's been two days and still nothing, but i dont want to phone him because i dont want to come across that i really care, even though i do, im fed up of him waiting for me.I dont even know if that makes sense, but i need advice as to how i handle this and how i can ease my mind.xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2008): Tell him what you want, tell him that you want him to call you at least, i am going through 4 year LDR, my g/f is the one that always rings me, i ring her maybe ONCE every 2 or 3 days, she calls me everyday but i usualy txt her more, id rather txt then call anyway( we dont talk for long maybe 5 to 30 minutes each call) just communicate with him and tell him what you want. If you keep wondering and worrying its just going to lead to more drama;s. Just be straight forward! goodluck :)
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