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writes:I am a 25 year old female confused because I been recently close with my neighbor who was engaged but broke up with his girlfriend about month ago. I been here for him during this whole break up but everyone tells me that he's in love me and that I am the only one who doesn't see it. The problem is that I am currently in a relationship. But my partner doesn't treat me not even 10% as good as my neighbor does. I am truly confused because I don't know how to go about it. My neighbor has been nice and helpful even when before he broke up with his girlfriend he's been super nice to me and we also have many things in common (we see the world different but from the same perspective). My neighbor is the only one that makes me smile and his constantly calling during the day. I don't know who I am in love with? But my neighbor is on the same page as me. We have the same goals nevertheless I feel that I am still with my boyfriend just because I fear being alone. Even though when I am not working I spend most of my free time with my neighbor. We have gone out shopping and out to dinner more in the last three months more than in my 5 years.
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reader, tone +, writes (3 January 2011):
 I broken man is a dangerous animal. This neighbor needs to express love to you as part of his mourning process of losing his engagement. Dont compare your boyfriend to him because they are in different places. The relationship with your boyfriend is different than your time with this neighbor. If you have problems with your boyfriend you should work on them or try at least. Try to talk to him. Say something like "I'm not happy in this relationship and feel like somethings need to change. Do you feel the same way?"
Good luck because this sounds tricky.
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