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writes:Im 18 years old i went out with this guy for a bit over the summer i liked him a hell of a lot but he ended what we had just before we both went back to the same college, i still really really like him but im not sure if he still likes me because we dont really talk much any more. i would like to do somthing for him on valentines day but im not sure if that would just make me seem desperate or not, but i would also like to show him that i still like him.im really not sure what to do help me Reply to this Question
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reader, LizBeth  +, writes (25 January 2011):
If he wanted to talk to you or be with you, he would do so. He is not making that effort. In my opinion, I wouldn't do anything for him for Valentine's Day. Save your money and keep your self-respect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): Wait until V day is over then contact him if you're interested in a relationship again.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (24 January 2011):
No, don't do anything for him. Look at it this way: does he deserve it? Sounds like a "no" to me.
Valentine's Day, in my opinion, is for us girls anyway. Sure, some guys are romantic and like getting some fuzzy stuffed animal and chocolates but that's mainly for the guys to get us so they can do their annual romantic effort to make us happy and hopefully get "lucky" that night.
Anyway, I don't think you should get him a gift. Seems like he may not be that interested if you're not evern on speaking terms. Maybe talk to him again and see if something turns out. But DO NOT ask him out for V-Day or get him anything.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (24 January 2011):
 You could order those custom candy hearts, and put "F U" on them.
Oh no wait, you probably want to do something romantic.
I'm with the rest of the aunts. If you send him something or go all out and plan a Valentine's Day date, it will make you look desperate, and he could very well shoot you down seeing as he's an ex.
If you're trying to rekindle the flame, I would wait until after V-day. A date on V-day, especially if you're trying to get back together is too much pressure on a guy. Start contacting him again, and see where it goes from there.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (24 January 2011):
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its up to you hun, but i wouldn't. he has not even remained on speaking terms with you so it seems like he is not interested. you may end up regretting it if you give him something and it is not welcome. valentines is a few weeks away, between now and then just try to get friendly with him and see how he responds to you, if he still shows no interest then, no leave him be. i really don't think a valentine gift will change his mind
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 January 2011):
 If he dumped you, it's probably best if you just let this one go. At most something small like a card or some chocolates, but I wouldn't bother.
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