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41-50,
*ctaviuskchester
writes:I was friends with a girl and her husband for over three years. Seven months after they broke up we started fooling around but she had a boyfriend. She said she loved me but had to be with the other guy for now. I felt like i was getting played so i told the boyfriend and the told the husband what she was doing, because they were still married. I also called her nasty names. My question is will I ever her back from her and if the answer is yes why. I would think I've done enough to make sure I never her from her.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (24 January 2011):
 If she's smart, she'll get as far away from you as she possibly can. Do you honestly think that by burning your bridge with this woman and trying to hurt her in this way is going to endear her to you?? What would you do if she wasn't married? Burn her clothes or key her car??
However, that's not the worst of it. Of COURSE she's playing you. What on earth are you doing with a married woman in the first place? YES she is playing you. That's a hard and fast rule of adultery. If she will cheat WITH you, she'll also cheat ON you. She is a waste of your time.
However, you must be better than that. Will you react like the 14 year old boy who found out that little Suzie kissed little Mikey behind your back, so you have to set fire to her hair? Or will you REALLY rise above it and find a SINGLE woman who will love and cherish you for you alone??
I'm guessing that this revenge you took on her really didn't give you satisfaction, or you wouldn't be thinking about wanting her back. You need to get her out of your head and move on.
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