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writes:So i no this sounds a bit monotonous of other questions, and y'all probably thinking that I should know how to do this by now, but hell, i guess ill still ask.So im a real shy guy till others get to know me. I do not make friends easily because of this. The friends I do have, I would do anything for. The only problem is that I dont know how to meet girls, I have I can seem to meet girls as friends, but I dont know how to go about meeting someone to potentially ask out. I have had one relationship which only started because she chased me down, but that is over now. I am in college and see lots of girls that I no are nice and some of them are even similar to me, but dont know how to actually meet them. I go to a small engineering school so everyone is kind socially awkward. What should I do? Im not looking to hook up with girls, I want a legitimate, healthy relationship. Should i forget about people at my school and try to hang out down the road at the state school and meet people there?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2011): Last semester I met an attractive and smart guy in a chemistry class, and now we're a couple. I think it's a great idea to meet someone you already have class with because you know they're committed to their career choice and attending class. You can find plenty of girls at your college or another local one, so don't worry! Instead of thinking about how to ask a girl out, right off the bat, get to know a suitable girl first. You can study together or be lab partners or something similar. Start small and build up from there. No matter what keep a positive and confident attitude and have fun! :)
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reader, xxTwisted_Mindxx  +, writes (25 January 2011):
ok.. here i go.. get her (a potential girl) to notice you when you pass no matter how shy you are ssmile and give big bright interesting eyes.. it'll indicate after a few times your interested.. look at her reaction and take note then some day when you's so happen to cross paths closly say hey or get involed in an event which will bring you closer to her or any girl.. get talking and act a little flirty dont step into the friends zone.. confidence is a pure gift i promise ya try it.. hope i could help ya! :) good luck!
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