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writes:I have a question for the ladies out there. What would you do if someone texts you that you're a slut, c*** and a whore. That somebody that you love texts you that on your phone? would you want to see him again. what would you do thanks 4 all your help
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well everything was fine I wanted to see my cat My cat is living with man and we are just friends. I told the other guy upfront about this guy and he told me it hurts him alote but he was fine about it. He asked me when are you comming home and of course I said when do you want to see me he said monday and tuesday and I agree to see him monday night. Then after that he turned again and told me thoes words I'm a slute extra. Then I told him to f off and don't text me or call me. That didn't work at all we are still talking to each other but I'm hurt He wants to know when I want to see him. I told him I will see him this week. He wants me to talk to him but I think it's best not to talk to him tell I see him. What should I do
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (24 January 2011):
 The reason does not matter, there is no reason good enough for this kind of verbal abuse.
Supposing she had done something to arouse his anger ?, still two wrongs don't make a right.
Particularly because it's in written. I can see how, during a face to face argument, in the heat of the moment, words may get out of control and, oops, all have a sudden you blurted out something... that you had not even finished thinking.
But by text ? you are writing.Even if you are a fast typer, you have time to think what you are saying , to realize its weight, and to know that's is gonna stay written. So you WANT to insult and demean.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2011): so this was out of nowhere for no reason? everything was normal. yesterday an irate woman was at my door,i said yes,who do you want. she then said my son had hit her son. my son then said,he spat at me again and then hit me. her son went quiet, she asked him is it true? he never answered,she then said to him if you hit other boys some of them will hit you back.
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (23 January 2011):
No way !
What would I do...
" Hit the road Jack , and don't you come back no more no more no mooore...."
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2011): y did he say it,if he felt he had a reason and was upset,maybe...........do you love him?
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