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*elltoo101
writes:Dear everyone i would like to hear your honest inputs on this statement. i alway wanted to settle for a smart intelligent lady, someone who would challenge me thoughtfully until i met nally she is my current girlfriend now and i love her so very much no problems whatsoever but there is a but that always buggs me she is just out of ma leak mind wise i am the master mind in this relationship like almost everything i am the one to make the decisions. i really wanted to be with someone who would think and act like me better yet mind wise and a fast thinker. she is sweet and all that but what really turns me on in a girl is intelligency. my heart tells me to get over that and love her limitless my mind tells me to get smart and find the up broad wise girl. so which should i go with i really need to have any input like should i plan the future with her and forget about what i want and take what i have. Should I make her miss right even though she doesn't challenge my mind wise like i wanted to be. Reply to this Question
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reader, Melltoo101 +, writes (24 January 2011):
Melltoo101 is verified as being by the original poster of the question :) Thanks for the honesty.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 hi
if you stay with her you may end up bored if her conversations and ideas are not up to the level that you require.
she may not be academically clever but she may have lots of sense and be clever with things in life that matter. you say you love her - only you can decide if her other qualities are sufficient enough to make you want her despite the fact she is not clever enough for you. i think you sound a bit full of yourself to be honest, and maybe this girl might be better off without someone who (thinks?) he is cleverer than her and therefore better!
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