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male
age
51-59,
*irius70
writes:My friends tell me to lie about being a virgin because they say, if I start to become intimate with a woman and she learns that I am still a virgin, she will be scared away. My friends say by this time, women want experience so my best avenue is to fake it to make it.Ladies is this true?I have had some shyness issues in the past but I think I am conquering them and would hate to think a lack of history is a death knell.
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reader, SillyB +, writes (16 January 2011):
 NOt true at all. Girl that is interested won't care and a girl who isn't interested but wants you for sex will have a thrill :)
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reader, jimmy2  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 I have to agree with the other two answers. I am a 39 year old male who has thus far only had 2 sexual partners and only went 'all the way' with one of them and that was 5 years ago & I've had nothing since save for a friendly date last week! So I'm not far off of where you are.
If anything I think this would turn a woman on more, so my advice is stop fretting, get out there and start dating. The only thing I would say is, make sure you click with them before admitting to this because if the woman is worth anything, by the time you get round to being intimate with them, it won't matter. The other thing is, don't be disheartened by initial failures - the more you suffer, the more you will learn & it will get to the point where you will feel comfortable enough in yourself for this not to matter so much to you & if it doesn't bother you it won't bother them.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (15 January 2011):
 Not true.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ladies-what-do-you-think-of-a-40.html
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