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writes:here we go, my gf left me just before christmas, she decided to go out with her flat mate, he had always liked her a year before she met me and she had had several bf during that time, he was her only friend and he started seeing another girl at his and my ex place of work. My ex pairents dont like him because he drinks alot and is overweight and lazy, he has always been single and never been with anyone. My friends believe it will only last 4 months if that and my ex has done this because she was scaired of loosing her only friend. I have been realy good and not phoned, text or said anything and just tried to be me even though im realy angry.... do you think im doing the rite thing by not saying anything? Ater reading what ive put what do you make of it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi, thanks for that think thats the best thing to do, i dont believe i would take her back after putting me through this over christmas as it was my first with a gf in a while, just mixed up myself, and also cant work out why she has no friends, i know i should not worry about these things
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 Well yes i think you are doing the right thing by not contacting her, i dont think its an excuse to go out with him because she doesnt want to lose him as a friend it sounds like she is confused and she doesnt know who she wants. I think the best thing you can do is accept that she is with someone else and move on with your life. Go out with your friends to take your mind of things and keep yourself busy. She is the one that finished it so let her be the first to contact you.
I completely understand that you are really hurt and you should be. But just remember this is not your fault so stay positive and rely on your friends to show you a good time.
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