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writes:I have a boyfriend who kissed another girl and stayed over at her house behind my back. they had just kissed and he told me the next day.He said he had liked her for over a year before falling in love with me. He doesnt want to be with her but think he still has feelings, but wants to be with me and still loves me. I do feel cheated and very hurt but i know i might sound stupid in saying i dont want to loose him. In a way i saw it as a mistake since we're only human and that it was a minor cheat, but still cheating in a way. I dont know if its worth still being with him if in the future the problem would'nt be resolved and we dont carry on being happy like we use to. I feel like im gambling my happiness here, and not sure what to do.
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reader, comeonjesusthishurtstoomuch  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 did he come out and tell you this or did you hear it elsewhere because you might not have gotten the whole truth usually when i have a man spendin the night at my house it's for more than kissing not to be mean but the truth i hope that god gives you the answers you seek
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 Well at least he was honest and open with you thats a start and it shows that he will tell you the truth which is a great start. Now it is totally up to yourself here. If you feel that you can trust him not to cheat again and that the relationship can be saved then give him the second chance. But only if you feel that you will be happy. Tell him though how you feel and tell him he needs to work hard on the relationship if you give him a second chance. Goodluck.
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