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*ysterygirl803
writes:So, its been a while since my sister revealed my intimate relationship with my 1st cousin to my mom. Ever since I have been forbidden to see him or have any type of contact with him. Although I know I can get in to much trouble and get him i trouble, we both decided to keep seeing each other secretly after the problems. Now my sister and brother keep bothering me with this and telling my mom, and I getting tired of it. We've talked and we decided that we want to be with each other no matter what happens. But ít has to be sometime in the near future. Meanwhile, my siblings are being cruel to me and I can't do anything, or even go out with out them saying or bothering or even blackmailing me. So Im in my room all the time Im at home. I am really considering the fact of moving out. But I dont know what to do because I know that if I move out, problems wih my first cousin and I will grow and my family will take matter into their own hands. Can you guys give me advice into what to do?? Stay at home and deal with them and their blackmailing or move out?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 Well i guess your family are never going to accept that you are wanting to have a relationship with your first cousin. This is illegal in many places and also if you were both to have children there is a high risk of birth defects therefore you need to look at why your family would be worried and concerned.
First though stop living a lie. You need to decide what is more important to you your family or your cousin. Once you have decided this then you need to be open and honest with all of your family and tell them your decision. If you decide that you want to be with your cousin no matter what then you need to tell your family this straight out and then take it from there.
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