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writes:My guy and I can't be together at the moment (long distance relationship) and we IM a lot to keep in touch. Lately he wants to start talking a little dirty with me. I like this and want to go along with it, but the thing is, I am a virgin with no experience and I have no idea what to say! He is more experienced than I so he has no such problems. I usually end up feeling awkward, not being sure what to say and then clamming up. Not fun for either of us. :/ So can you help me out? What are some hot things to say that don't sound stupid? Either explicit or non-explicit is ok. Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011): Instead of saying short little dirty ones try sending a "story". It might be easyer thats what me and my bf do. Just say what you would want to happen if he is there or what you would do if he was. Like "you come over to my place and go to my room and start .... ... ... then when were done we cuddle all night" You can do that and just add what ever you want.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 Well i guess everybody is different and different people want to hear different things. You dont need to be experienced to talk dirty. It just takes time to get used to it and also remember you are only typing the words therefore there is nothing to be embarressed about. Maybe just start with what you would like to do with him if he was with you and ask him what he would like to do and just take it from there, if you dont feel comfortable with somethings then it is ok not to say those things. If you are unsure on what to say to him then just type in to google saying how to talk dirty to my boyfriend and there are plenty of websites on there that will give you lots of ideas.
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