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Am I thinking too far ahead in the future?

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Question - (15 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2011)
A male United States age 26-29, *unnyguy25 writes:

I'm a 15 yr old guy who has a perfectly normal and great life....i have a girlfriend who is 14 and i have liked her since the age of 11...2 years back she told me that she likes me as well....

at present, we love each other so much that we are willing to spend our lives with each other....

what i'm worried about is that after a couple of years, when we are getting into college, i might be staying back in the UAE to study...whereas she has plans of going abroad....

4 years of not seeing each other could lead to our relationship becoming weaker...which i dont want at all!!!

is it normal to think this way..or am i thinking too far ahead???

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A male reader, funnyguy25 United States +, writes (15 January 2011):

funnyguy25 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i guess both of u are right.....i hope the bond becomes stronger....bcoz i dont want to lose her..at any cost...

thnx for answering!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011):

I agree with Cindy yes you are thinking way to much into the future. You are worrier if you teach yourself not to do this you will be saving yourself a lot of worry for nothing.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (15 January 2011):

CindyCares agony auntYes ,you are thinking too far ahead.

At your age, two years is a long period of time during which many things can change.

Two years from now, you may have parted ways.

Or,in fact, your bond can have grown deeper and stronger , enabling you to carry on with trust and confidence a long separation..

Or, either one may have changed their plans for studies and future.

I'd suggest you to stay in the present and be thanfkul for the joy your relationship brings you here and now.

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