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Archived questions from: 16 September, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Seriously guys, why can't I get girls to show any interest in me? Please help me Cupid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Hi there, I'm writing to ask your advice on a problem that has remained unsolved for me since I was about 17. I'm 30 now! It's a pretty straightforward problem: I can't get a girlfrind, girls just don't seem to be interested in me. See? I told ...

Who to pick? I like both of them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Theres two girls in my school, i have and i have two classes together with both of them, though neither of them have a class together that i am in to.Anyway, one openly admited that she liked me, and we flirt all day long and are pretty much on the ...

Do the aunts feel the love here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a married man for the past 14 months we have great sex but we get on well together and have similar interests, i am separated from my husband. The man I am seeing has never told me he loves me nor have I told him that I love him. ...

She says she likes me but it doesn't seem like she does!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Hey everybody, I have a small problem thats been on my mind for a couple days. i am at college, and last year i met a friend up here who ended up being really cool and we git it off pretty well. eventually, we stopped talking and didnt talk the w...

Its been a year now but I still want to ask her out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Hi! Well i will tell you my story, but don't get angry about my grammar, because I am not very good at english. So I hope you guys will understand me. Well I will not tell you whole story, so it would be a short but understandable. ...

How do I talk to him with my mom there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hey everyone. I have a question on how to know if a guy likes you? So I am twenty years old and I just joined a gym with my mother. At the gym there is this trainer who happens to be twenty two. Everytime I see him we deffinitly flirt. Through ...

How do I improve the outcome of the month break? I want to get back with my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i just broke up a few days ago... he said that he doesn't want a relationship right now. he also said that he needs space and when we were in the relationship that i smothered him, and i didn't give him enough space. he said t...

I'm told I'm not fat and I'm stunning, so why no boyfriend? I'm thinking a diet will sort it all out.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - hey right well this is a weird question ! i want to know what to do? i would say i am fat but everyone says im not and i would say im ugly but every says im stunning and i want to loose weight! becouse i am 15 and never once had a boyfrind so if p...

Ever since I moved back to her town, our relationship has been different. Now she wants a break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Im have been dating this woman officially for 6 months. To ease the strain she asked if I would return back to our college town with her for a while, she has a yr left. When I got down here everything changed. we are staying together and she said ...

Why most Women are attracted to Bad Men

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Every woman on the planet that has ever been involved with a man that was not worthy of her has asked of herself these questions..."Why can't I find a decent guy, Why do I always meet the wrong men and When will I find a man who really loves me?" ...

Is his friendship with my ex keeping us apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hey guys! Okay so i have a question...well its more like i need advice.. Okay, so i dated this guy for about 4 years, things were really serious and i loved him a lot...but after the first 2 years we had some shaky periods. His best friend and ...

I can't keep being her doormat, I have feelings too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Where to start? Around 3 years ago, I went out with a girl I had known for several years she had been in a relationship where her boyfriend lied cheated and even beat her. I got together with her around a year after that relationship fin...

Is this his way of saying he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - For over a year, I've been in a strange relationship. We only get together to have sex about once a week. I’m 51, he’s 27. Of course, I have fallen in love with him. I know he has issues with being open and telling me how he feels. Yesterday he ...

Been told I'm not a good kisser so how do I do better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - heyya! i just wanna knw how do i give a good kiss. ive had girlfriends in the past who hav sed im nt a good kisser so i want to knw, how can i give a good kiss?...

Why are people trying to get between me and my g/f?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Hullo... My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly two years....yaaaaay...im 17 turning 18 soon, and shes 18. We love eachother very much, blah blah, youve heard it all before. For some reason, some of her male friends are all insisting on...

Should I just take it slow for a couple of months and if it doesn't move forward, move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I don't understand. We broke up but he keeps coming back to me. He told me he doesn't want a commitment but when I don't call him he keeps calling me and I go back. He is all lovey dovey like a true relaionship even talking about us vacationing ...

I want my boyfriend to move in with me but I don't think my family would approve!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - hi guys. i been with my boyfriend for 6months and he is a very sweet and kind person and we both are madly in love with each other. we have talked about our future together. he always mention how he cant wait to get married to me and he calls me ...

Are these potential red flags in new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hi, So I've been dating a new guy officially for about a month now, seeing each other for two in total. We were sort of friends for a little while before this and the relationship came totally out of the blue, but it was a good suprise So f...

Is he just stressed out with everything that is going on in his life or does he not want to see me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hello! Let's see, I have been dating a guy for about a month and a half. We generally go out 3 times a week, we try to mix it up a bit. Sometimes we eat out or sometimes we stay in and have a nice home cooked dinner and watch a movie. Recently he ...

How do I get a chance with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - i just met this girl in class and we talked a bit on that day as well as the second day we saw each other in class, it only during this class that we see each other and i have found out a few things about her commercial model, rich and an actress so ...

How do I heal myself after getting out of an abusive relationship so I will be ready to date again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hi, ya'll- My heart is too beaten up to date right now, even though I am desperately lonely. I'm 35, would love to meet and marry someone, and pop out a kid. What are some things for me to do to heal myself? And what should I do in the meant...

I need a steady but she's not reliable, do I keep looking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - I have been seeing a 40 year old mother of 1 6 year old (girl)... I am 58... we have a great time together, seldom as it is... we met last year... I left her for florida for 5 months, came back and called her. Her schedule is crazy, work, child, e...

He wasn't serious about saying he loved me before, I'm confused, shall I leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hi ! Im 25 years of age and my boyfriend is 21. I met my boyfriend 9 months ago. We hardly meet but we always talk on PHone. I love him a lot and for the last 9 months i thought he has the same feelings as i have for him. But today he told me that ...

I need her back in my life and know she has feelings for me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Hi everyone I split up with my girlfriend just over 2 months ago and did not cope well with the break up. We had been together 2 years and I had taken a second job in order to save up enough money to take her to Paris and propose (she didn't and ...

I don't know if my coworker feels the same...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I am really atttracted to this guy in work but I dont know if he feels the same. When he is on the phone with me he talks away but when he is in the office he teases me more than talking to me. He also doesnt really make eye contact with me...

I freeze when I try to tell him how I feel!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I was wondering how do you tell your boyfriend that you want to kiss passionatly, cuddle and to be sexual when I have a hard time talking about about my feelings. Also how would I work on ...

Does she really love me or have I misunderstood?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5344 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Hi! my Gf,she is working with me in the same office. I love her,she always watch my face gives smile and other lovely expression. But I dont know that really she loves me or it is my any mistake to understand her. so suggest me that can i pro...

Staying at his place for the first time....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend has asked me to stay over at his, because he works late and likes to have a drink, but doesnt want to have to drive me home. Im very excited, but also a little worried. I dont know if hes expecting sex (but he wont be getting it!) ...

She says she likes me but it sure doesn't seem that way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5345 days ago

How much of PDA's are ok?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - this question is for everyone. how much public displays of affection (PDA) is too much? what do u think when u see people displaying affection? is hugging, holding hands, and a quick peck kiss okay? if u dont think its okay then why do u think th...

I'm afraid of losing love in the future

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - Hey everyone i need some advice... My girfriend and i have been dating for almost a year now and we've talked of our future. Although we're in a LDR we truly love each other but im just so afraid of losing her in the far future... I dont know wha...

Dating a busy guy: still interested or extremely busy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I've been going out with this guy, but recently we haven't had much time together since he's been extremely busy. He works full-time and goes to school as well. I focus more on my studies, so hence work less. Since we work at the same place, we d...

Am I in the "best friend zone" or "I like you zone"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - hello! So I've come to this web site because I'm stumped... my friends are stumped (except for my roomies BF who THINKS he knows) and well I need to figure this out. Okay so A few weeks ago we started college band camp (yes I'm a band geek) anyways ...

Do you think such a relationship nowadays can work, considering the age gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - I am a 47 yrs of age man, an artist, and I've dated young women for a while, mostly friendships, based on similar interests like wine, dinning, companionship, and of course sex. About a year ago, I met this girl, she's 17 yrs younger, and what i ...

Cough fetish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5346 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - I am pretty sure I have a cough fetish. I get turned on my hearing girls cough. Usually the harder they cough, the more turned on I get. I just want to see if anyone else has heard of this. Thanks....

How soon into a relationship should I reveal I'm a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hi cupid people, I know another 40 year old virginity rant but ah well - tis unique cos its all about me this time :) Basically I am a 24 (and 3 quarters) year old virgin although I'm not terrible looking and I have had ex's who have offered to ...

How do I convince my parents that my boyfriend is a decent guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - My parents forbid me from my boyfriend and his friends. I had two parties at my house one weekend while they were gone but my aunt was watching me and was aware of what was going on, plus my mom gave me permission to have people over. But that tha...

I adore my girlfriend but she is pushing me away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

16 September 2009 (M) - hi. i have a slight delema.Me and my girl friend are 15 and we've been going out for a month now.i absolutely adore her. And she says she loves me and thinks about me all the time. But she doesnt show it.We just hug and/or a quick kiss. Nothing ...

I'm jealous of his female friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - There was a guy I was kind of seeing he is a good friend of my ex and as you can imagine things were awkward so I backed away from the situation so I wouldn't get hurt even though I am hurt. Anyway this guy still likes me at least I think he does ...

My ex hates me but I want a friendship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

16 September 2009 (?) - i talked to my ex last night. he was saying he just wanted to clear the air with us. i blew him off and told him i didnt want a friendship. he got really upset and started bringing up problems with our past relationship. we ended up in a full on ...

Emotional conversation avoider combined with commitment phobe leaves me confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Hi there I have been dating a man who is 42 years old for 10 months. I am 37. The relationship started as mainly sex. Since then it has developed into more. Each time we see each other we have a great time. He is loving, attentive and fun for that...

What do I do? I like one and don't want to hurt the other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5346 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - So i have 2 guy friends. Lets call them Bob And John Bob and John have been best friends for a long time. I like John. And he likes me to. But Bob also likes me. Me and Bob have been really good friends for a really long time. And there has alwa...

Would it be wrong to have a relationship with an older guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - Im 16 going to be 17 in the spring and ive always had "a thing" for this guy whos about 23 24.hes no stranger.My mom and his mom are bestfriends and known each other forever and ive known him since i was in like middle school.we've never really hung ...

Am I about to marry the wrong guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

16 September 2009 (F) - I was in a relationship with this guy at the age of 16.We used to go to highscool together.Later we went to the same college.Somehow it couldnt work between us . We kept coming up with things to quarrel about.I always felt that he did not give me ...